To my fellow single ladies…

I’ve come to realise in this my adult life that love isn’t always romance, you see…
Sometimes it’s friendship, sometimes it can come from your colleagues at work, it could be from family.

As adults, we ought to realize that it’s nobody’s job to make us happy. As grown women it is our responsibility to find happiness by ourselves and in ourselves and then if a man comes it’s simply an addition to what is already there.

Do not wait until you “fall in love” to become happy, do not wait until you find a romantic partner before you romanticize your life… C’mon, there are several ways to take care of yourself, love up on yourself without waiting for someone to do that for you…

– Go on solo dates or hang out with them girlies.
– Have more “me” time.. You can start journaling, read a book or just sit in the quiet and breathe.
– Have a morning and night routine.
– Go to the cinema to see a movie or download it with your phone.
– Create music playslists with your favourite songs and listen whenever you want to.
– Set daily positive affirmations.
– Make good meals for yourself.
– Fall in love with art.
– Join a book club or start one with your friends
– Add more scent to your life.
– Write love letters to yourself.. You can burn or keep them afterwards.
– Start a new hobby outside your comfort zone.
– Buy things for yourself. You can make it a habit to gift yourself something every month.
– Go to church and cultivate a prayer life.
– Join the church workforce and serve.

It’s okay to take your time to find what is right for you but Sis, be happy, live your life, don’t stay on the sidelines and act like a spectator in your own story…
Appreciate every single thing that pertains to you, be grateful for the things that may seem insignificant to you even the air that you breathe. It is in finding happiness in the little things about yourself and around you, living in the moment and not stressing about the future that you become whole and literally glow up.

I’m rooting for you Sis. Yes you can ❤️

Good morning and have a lovely weekend ahead 😘